Comments on: Some home truths for men http://nourishingobscurity.com/2010/02/28/some-home-truths-for-men/ Wed, 23 May 2012 21:59:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: ubermouth http://nourishingobscurity.com/2010/02/28/some-home-truths-for-men/comment-page-1/#comment-12247 ubermouth Sun, 28 Feb 2010 14:24:28 +0000 http://nourishingobscurity.com/2010/02/28/some-home-truths-for-men/#comment-12247 I completely agree with everything you have written here and know full well how we are made to feel like dinosaurs[for simply having old fashioned family values,as if that was a bad thing]. And now I am going to sound too old for my years,given I came of age in the 80's... Although, I was never the kind of girl dreaming about my wedding ....I do believe in the vows and for one partner to cheat[or lie o each other even] is the most despicable act.And it is self destructive for the home and hearth is everything. Anyone who would risk their family[or partner] for such superficial pleasures[although I don't get the concept that there would be much pleasure in intimate acts with strangers, outside a loving relationship] are too selfish and unconscionable to deserve to be in a loving relationship in the first instance. What we lack most in our 'modern' society is accountability and responsibility. When people marry[or even commit to a relationship] they voluntarily give up the right to behave in an insular, single manner to the detriment of the other. If people can't cope with that level of intimacy and commitment,stay single. Simple. I completely agree with everything you have written here and know full well how we are made to feel like dinosaurs[for simply having old fashioned family values,as if that was a bad thing].

And now I am going to sound too old for my years,given I came of age in the 80′s…

Although, I was never the kind of girl dreaming about my wedding ….I do believe in the vows and for one partner to cheat[or lie o each other even] is the most despicable act.And it is self destructive for the home and hearth is everything.
Anyone who would risk their family[or partner] for such superficial pleasures[although I don't get the concept that there would be much pleasure in intimate acts with strangers, outside a loving relationship] are too selfish and unconscionable to deserve to be in a loving relationship in the first instance.

What we lack most in our ‘modern’ society is accountability and responsibility.

When people marry[or even commit to a relationship] they voluntarily give up the right to behave in an insular, single manner to the detriment of the other. If people can’t cope with that level of intimacy and commitment,stay single. Simple.

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