Comments on: The grass is always greener http://nourishingobscurity.com/2010/01/31/the-grass-is-always-greener/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 07:12:52 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: Sackerson http://nourishingobscurity.com/2010/01/31/the-grass-is-always-greener/comment-page-1/#comment-6755 Sackerson Sun, 31 Jan 2010 16:11:41 +0000 http://nourishingobscurity.com/?p=6473#comment-6755 I don't know, James. I think that for many women, their mind and body go together and they'll be jealous of your intimacy with someone else on either level because for them, one aspect implies the other, if not now then at some other time. I had a friend's girlfriend explain to me once that she had felt jealous of my relationship with him, until she'd worked out for herself that our friendship didn't threaten their love relationship. But she had had to work it out, it wasn't simply obvious to her. I'd say the mind is more important, and the woman can forgive a purely physical fling. I remember reading an Italian's advice: marry a beauty, and if you must sin, sin with a woman who is her inferior in every way, for she will then put it down to the weakness of men. For the real cold-hearted woman-manipulators, I came across this fellow some while back: http://roissy.wordpress.com/ ... while reading the (I suspect) racist and intellectual snob "Half Sigma" (one of the Econbrowser top 30): http://www.halfsigma.com/ If you want more red herrings for your divergent mind, the latter fellow is revisiting his theories of genetics and IQ (http://www.halfsigma.com/2010/01/massive-hbdrelated-blog-traffic-today.html). Here come those chaps in the snappy black uniforms again... I don’t know, James. I think that for many women, their mind and body go together and they’ll be jealous of your intimacy with someone else on either level because for them, one aspect implies the other, if not now then at some other time. I had a friend’s girlfriend explain to me once that she had felt jealous of my relationship with him, until she’d worked out for herself that our friendship didn’t threaten their love relationship. But she had had to work it out, it wasn’t simply obvious to her.

I’d say the mind is more important, and the woman can forgive a purely physical fling. I remember reading an Italian’s advice: marry a beauty, and if you must sin, sin with a woman who is her inferior in every way, for she will then put it down to the weakness of men.

For the real cold-hearted woman-manipulators, I came across this fellow some while back:

http://roissy.wordpress.com/

… while reading the (I suspect) racist and intellectual snob “Half Sigma” (one of the Econbrowser top 30):

http://www.halfsigma.com/

If you want more red herrings for your divergent mind, the latter fellow is revisiting his theories of genetics and IQ (http://www.halfsigma.com/2010/01/massive-hbdrelated-blog-traffic-today.html). Here come those chaps in the snappy black uniforms again…

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